Android touch screen wiring help

[Doziierozie]

I recently bought an imported 2003 Alphard Hybrid which came with a touch screen but everything is in Japanese and unable to actually use it. I decided to get an android unit from Ali express and because I bought the one specifically for the facia I had assumed it would be plug and play. How wrong was I. There are 3 connectors on the new head unit and only 1 of them fits the original connectors which is the 20 pin plug the other 2 have bigger pins and don’t fit at all. I was wondering if anyone had any insights on any adapters or something so I can have music in my Alphard?

 

I have taken some pictures of the harnesses from the car and a picture of the harness from the new android unit.