I have exactly the same car as you on the same year and the same Vgate dongle (mine is ELM version 2.6) but cannot get this to communicate with the ECU. I've entered the string as you have kindly posted but it just doesn't work. I entered it as...
ATIB 96\n ATIIA 13\N ATSH 8113F1\n ATSP A4\n ATSW 00
Is that correct or am I doing something wrong? Should there not be any spaces?