I recently bought a new Head unit from aliexpress, everything connected well as it was plug and play with old android unit. I have managed to get video out to ceiling unit, reverse cam working with trigger, speakers too.
My loom also came with the same Canbus decoder you have but I'm not sure how to get it working, I have gone into the factory settings and selected the canbus to detect alphard but nothing gets detected. Do i need that thick red cable 40 pin? that you have connected up?