wendy give ian taylor uk a call 07980 616117 he specialises in alphards i was going to buy a 3.0 engine off him then decided to have mine rebuilt he has a damaged 3.0 alphard worth calling him see if he will to sell the ecu to you . also check this link some one on ebay breaking a 3.0 https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/156129299598?_skw=alphard+3.0+breaking&itmmeta=01JYH7744S18GY1RCZEG6ZY6Z6&hash=item245a080c8e:g:SB8AAOSwQEZlwmFv&itmprp=enc%3AAQAKAAAA8FkggFvd1GGDu0w3yXCmi1cemBr5QXHihPILnFZ8MiwPjfH3K3RPqe%2Fht%2FI2zqoMNxAtGqElpuKU7KwCiyBrLDt3NVe82OpStfYbMs7W71yxBz8J%2FknqxWXyB8LihGvriy%2Fv7aUlwM9vKOwt7Ri%2B97iiUHKUSyvMgquRZuhkHvehZcwCYq%2BFW%2FMpzfWY5HiE2N%2Fyu2UzFb5qAO%2BTTZDR8yoR3vwwRUYBpR5mmln9hLtP9fDlJNVWj%2Bzs9RPFnZ3MIhY5bWI%2B5W3PLwY1%2BziP21fE7QbRa7lmgPodZt%2F2Y04123PdvhtyGKEv%2BaMQs1CGwQ%3D%3D|tkp%3ABk9SR8jCnKf0ZQ